Wednesday, August 7, 2013

So show me family...

We're going through tough times here in the Ville, and I guess they could be linked directly back to me and my migraine.

My migraine and I missed a day of work this week (unpaid), and my migraine and I missed a day and a half of work last week (unpaid). We've really been spending a lot of time together, my migraine and I.

A 20%+ reduction in my paycheck every week is enough to freak my accountant out, and she doesn't have the benefit of nice calming anti-anxiety pills like I do.

And so every day when she picks me up and takes me to work - my accountant is also my morning chauffeur, who also happens to be my mother - I have to hear in full detail about my money problems and how I don't make it easy on her and if I keep it up I'll just have to move back in with her, and she doesn't take cats.

We can't ever ever let that happen, of course. Because 1) I love my mother, but living with her was really awful!, and 2) I love my kitty, and I could never give her up!

Things were much better before Dwayne got laid off, and then his RA got so advanced. He's still waiting for his disability hearing. He has to use canes, walkers,'s shocking how much it has progressed in two years, and he's only 45. My grandpa, who is 83 and had brain surgery seven months ago, can still make it across the room faster than Dwayne can. I don't understand how he still hasn't been's a mystery.

The other thing is that I'm kind of supporting me, Chelsea and her best friend until they get jobs. Chelsea had a job but quit to go to school but then sat out a semester so now she has no job and no school but she is looking for a job now until school starts back. Her best friend was kind of kicked out by his family and had nowhere to go so I said he could stay here until he got a job and found somewhere to go.

I won't mention how long he's been here. Let's just say maybe our Christmas decorations were still up.

I'm kind of his mother figure now. He came out to me yesterday as transgender. So now I have to call her, her. And she.

I had noticed that she had pretty nail polish on her toes for a few weeks now, but you know me...I see something, I think, oh, and then it's gone. IT'S MICHELLE'S WORLD.

I don't know how easy it may be for her job hunting as obviously trans, because she has a deep voice still. I know that Louisville has the Fairness Act, but can employers find ways around that? I'm just worried about her, this is a great town but it isn't New York or San Fran where she might have more help available.

But she has me! Even though we're very low on funds, we have lots of love! And we have, you know, the internet.

p.s. My migraine and I will be going to work together from now on. We will no longer be staying at home. Even if I go and just sit there at my desk in silent death, I will get up and go. So I can bring home that $150/day.

Unless I won the lottery tonight, I'll be sure to let you all know.


  1. MY WORLD is so dull in comparison to YOUR WORLD. Maybe you should write a screenplay for a new TV show. Does Best Friend like fashion? Or maybe she can attend beauty school to become a nail tech. It seems like those industries would be friendlier.

    When all else fails, try a temp agency. I dropped by one around here, and they're hiring.

    1. I think a temp agency is a really good idea for both kids... I know they're 21 and 22, but you know, KIDS.

      YOU live in a beautiful world, and I thank you for sharing it every day.

  2. If you win the lottery will you be sharing with your fellow bloggers?? Kidding. Kinda. Seriously though, I am sorry to hear about the migraine. Those are super tough to deal with.

    1. Thank you!
      And, I would definitely share.
      But unfortunately, I didn't win. :(
      I don't think regular people from Kentucky will ever win a 400 million dollars. I should move to NJ, IL, or MI...

  3. Every worthwhile path has its obstacles. Hopefully, when migraine is manageable and RA disability is settled, yours will ease up.